There are two types of men in the world, Some will say, “I got you” , while others will say, “I got you right where I want you”.  The “I got you” man will provide for you and protect you at all costs. They will take care of your needs and have your best interest at the forefront of their mind. While, the “I got you right where I want you” type of man, thrives off getting by with the bare minimum. He may be fond of you but doesn’t have any long term use for you. Men will either play with you or they will pay for you. When I say, pay for you, I’m not suggesting that you can be bought. However, what I am saying, is “For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.” Think about it, besides rent/mortgage, where do you spend most of your money? Is it on clothing, shoes, perfume, travel or other high end experiences? Why do you spend money on those things? They are important to you, right? It’s the same thing with men. If he is not spending his money or time on you, you do not have his heart.

For those of you who like the learn the hard way, please realize that you can’t trick him into wifing you. If he doesn’t think you are the one, there’s nothing that you can do to change his mind. If he hasn’t taking you off the market, it’s because he doesn’t think you are worth the price. Why continue to entertain someone who feels like you belong on the clearance rack? My advice is to leave as soon as you realize that you are not the same page regarding relationships. However, my closure seeking sistas will feel the need to give men one more chance to choose them by asking questions such as, “So, what are we? or “Where is this thing going?”. If you have to ask those questions, you probably already know the answer. If you don’t, let me give you a hint, the answers are Nothing and Nowhere.