Dear Single Ladies

I know we just had to deal with that one family member that asked us why we were STILL SINGLE smack dab in the middle of Thanksgiving Dinner. But when you asked them why they’ve been divorced three times, all of a sudden you were the villain.

With Christmas right around the corner, our timelines will be flooded with a plethora of holiday proposals and matching pajamas. Although theses pictures are cute and will have some of us in our feelings, but don’t fold. Don’t text your ex and fool yourself into believing that he’s actually changed. He hasn’t.

We’ll get a small break in January because everyone will be too busy trying to lose weight. But February is a raggedy hoe that’s going to throw singleness in your face every chance her trifling tail gets. This would be a perfect time for you to take that vacation you’ve been saving up for or get a party bus for you and your other single friends to celebrate the good life.

Stay calm and enjoy this season sis! I’m not going to lie, certain aspects of being single do suck (see the video clip below) but there are several other perks that make it worth it. Take this time to do a deep dive into self-care. PleaseHER!!! Focus on your goals and dreams and start manifesting the type of life you want. And the best part is you get to sleep well at night knowing no one is cheating on you! If you get lonely or frustrated with your single journey DM me. We’ll get through this together!

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