Restoring Hearts, Minds & Relationships

Kay Monét

Cuffin Season

  • CLOSURE: PART II

    CLOSURE: PART II

    In the past, I’ve hinted that closure isn’t necessary. I may have even said that it was a scam! As my life progresses and I increase my knowledge in the love/relationship space, I’ve realized that I may not have articulated my views on closure very well. So I’d like to revise some of my previous…

  • Holiday Season Singleness

    Holiday Season Singleness

    Dear Single Ladies I know we just had to deal with that one family member that asked us why we were STILL SINGLE smack dab in the middle of Thanksgiving Dinner. But when you asked them why they’ve been divorced three times, all of a sudden you were the villain. With Christmas right around the…

  • 10 Reasons Not To Beef With The Side Piece

    10 Reasons Not To Beef With The Side Piece

    Do you know what sucks more than getting cheated on? Getting cheated on, and then taking your frustrations out on the wrong person. Ladies, stop trying to square up with the side chick . Unless she’s a friend or family member, she owes you nothing! As unpopular as this opinion may be, having beef with…

  • Closure

    Closure

    Is closure really necessary or is it a Pick Me’s way of trying to convince a man to stay? Many women feel closure is a requirement to move on, but one can argue that it actually holds you back. There have been several times where I’ve met up with an old flame to officially close…

  • Give Him Back To The Streets

    Give Him Back To The Streets

    Dating has always been difficult for me. In a perfect world, I would’ve met my husband in preschool and years later we’d be married. Since that didn’t happen, dating is a necessary evil. I purposely took a year hiatus from the dating scene to release any signs of bitterness as well as rid myself of…

  • What’s my favorite word? BLOCKED!

    What’s my favorite word? BLOCKED!

    The holidays are among us and tis the season for these Ho Ho Hoes to try to shoot their recycled shots. It is my duty to remind you that we got 2020 problems but an ex ain’t one. Although many people may have celebrated this holiday season differently than they have in the past, there’s one…

  • Monogamy Hypocrisy

    Monogamy Hypocrisy

    Several men try to wiggle their way out of fidelity by claiming that certain types of relationships don’t require commitment. The lie detector test determined that was a lie from the pit of hell! Leave it up to these G. I. HOES to make up their own relationship rules and just expect us to go…