Restoring Hearts, Minds & Relationships

Kay Monét

Dating

  • CLOSURE: PART II

    CLOSURE: PART II

    In the past, I’ve hinted that closure isn’t necessary. I may have even said that it was a scam! As my life progresses and I increase my knowledge in the love/relationship space, I’ve realized that I may not have articulated my views on closure very well. So I’d like to revise some of my previous…

  • Holiday Season Singleness

    Holiday Season Singleness

    Dear Single Ladies I know we just had to deal with that one family member that asked us why we were STILL SINGLE smack dab in the middle of Thanksgiving Dinner. But when you asked them why they’ve been divorced three times, all of a sudden you were the villain. With Christmas right around the…

  • Unpopular opinions

    Unpopular opinions

    Social media is a space where people are free to share their opinions, no matter how loud, proud and wrong they may be. Typically, I stay in my lane and politely scroll past the randomness that shows up on my feed. As a former people pleaser, I had been programmed to just go with the…

  • 10 Reasons Not To Beef With The Side Piece

    10 Reasons Not To Beef With The Side Piece

    Do you know what sucks more than getting cheated on? Getting cheated on, and then taking your frustrations out on the wrong person. Ladies, stop trying to square up with the side chick . Unless she’s a friend or family member, she owes you nothing! As unpopular as this opinion may be, having beef with…

  • Closure

    Closure

    Is closure really necessary or is it a Pick Me’s way of trying to convince a man to stay? Many women feel closure is a requirement to move on, but one can argue that it actually holds you back. There have been several times where I’ve met up with an old flame to officially close…

  • Give Him Back To The Streets

    Give Him Back To The Streets

    Dating has always been difficult for me. In a perfect world, I would’ve met my husband in preschool and years later we’d be married. Since that didn’t happen, dating is a necessary evil. I purposely took a year hiatus from the dating scene to release any signs of bitterness as well as rid myself of…

  • What’s my favorite word? BLOCKED!

    What’s my favorite word? BLOCKED!

    The holidays are among us and tis the season for these Ho Ho Hoes to try to shoot their recycled shots. It is my duty to remind you that we got 2020 problems but an ex ain’t one. Although many people may have celebrated this holiday season differently than they have in the past, there’s one…

  • Monogamy Hypocrisy

    Monogamy Hypocrisy

    Several men try to wiggle their way out of fidelity by claiming that certain types of relationships don’t require commitment. The lie detector test determined that was a lie from the pit of hell! Leave it up to these G. I. HOES to make up their own relationship rules and just expect us to go…

  • DMs

    DMs

    First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes somebody’s husband in my DMs! Is it just me, or is that not how the nursery rhyme is supposed to go? It still baffles me how someone can be a whole husband and simultaneously be Steph Curry with the shot in somebody’s inbox? Today we’re discussing what…

  • Dehydrated

    Dehydrated

    A Samaritan woman has an encounter with the Father, He skips the small talk and asks her for some water. “I’ve had a long day so what makes you think, I’ll stop what I’m doing to get you a drink?” Jesus got gangsta and put her in her place. “If you knew who I was…

  • “Smile Queen”

    “Smile Queen”

    No thank you. Stay away from me. Walk right by. Withhold your identity. Not interested in your name. And you don’t need to know mine. I’m not here for the games. Don’t waste my time. “Smile Queen, Why you looking so mean?” I’ve heard this all before. You’re a carbon copy. “Who hurt you Beautiful?”…

  • Wonderfully Made

    Wonderfully Made

    I tend to move in silence, But my worth does not! My breath won’t be wasted reminding you, Of what you must have forgot. He says, “What do you have to offer?” To which I replied, “I offer my condolences, Because my interest in you has died.” My value is indescribable, For I have a…

  • Exit Strategies

    Exit Strategies

    Over the past couple of years I have found myself caught up in different types of situationships. There were manipulators, time wasters, and those with wandering eyes. You name it, I had dated them all! Although, I’ve wasted some of my prime years entertaining dusties, my experiences weren’t a complete lost. My horrible taste in…

  • G.H.O.S.T.

    G.H.O.S.T.

    There’s a meme floating around social media that states “Dudes really be hurting the girls they begged to be with.” Whew! When I tell you I felt this in my spirit. There’s this guys that chased me for years! He pursued me all throughout college but I never gave him a chance because I knew…