Restoring Hearts, Minds & Relationships

Kay Monét

Unhealthy Relationships

  • CLOSURE: PART II

    CLOSURE: PART II

    In the past, I’ve hinted that closure isn’t necessary. I may have even said that it was a scam! As my life progresses and I increase my knowledge in the love/relationship space, I’ve realized that I may not have articulated my views on closure very well. So I’d like to revise some of my previous…

  • Unpopular opinions

    Unpopular opinions

    Social media is a space where people are free to share their opinions, no matter how loud, proud and wrong they may be. Typically, I stay in my lane and politely scroll past the randomness that shows up on my feed. As a former people pleaser, I had been programmed to just go with the…

  • 10 Reasons Not To Beef With The Side Piece

    10 Reasons Not To Beef With The Side Piece

    Do you know what sucks more than getting cheated on? Getting cheated on, and then taking your frustrations out on the wrong person. Ladies, stop trying to square up with the side chick . Unless she’s a friend or family member, she owes you nothing! As unpopular as this opinion may be, having beef with…

  • Give Him Back To The Streets

    Give Him Back To The Streets

    Dating has always been difficult for me. In a perfect world, I would’ve met my husband in preschool and years later we’d be married. Since that didn’t happen, dating is a necessary evil. I purposely took a year hiatus from the dating scene to release any signs of bitterness as well as rid myself of…

  • What’s my favorite word? BLOCKED!

    What’s my favorite word? BLOCKED!

    The holidays are among us and tis the season for these Ho Ho Hoes to try to shoot their recycled shots. It is my duty to remind you that we got 2020 problems but an ex ain’t one. Although many people may have celebrated this holiday season differently than they have in the past, there’s one…

  • Monogamy Hypocrisy

    Monogamy Hypocrisy

    Several men try to wiggle their way out of fidelity by claiming that certain types of relationships don’t require commitment. The lie detector test determined that was a lie from the pit of hell! Leave it up to these G. I. HOES to make up their own relationship rules and just expect us to go…

  • Exit Strategies

    Exit Strategies

    Over the past couple of years I have found myself caught up in different types of situationships. There were manipulators, time wasters, and those with wandering eyes. You name it, I had dated them all! Although, I’ve wasted some of my prime years entertaining dusties, my experiences weren’t a complete lost. My horrible taste in…

  • G.H.O.S.T.

    G.H.O.S.T.

    There’s a meme floating around social media that states “Dudes really be hurting the girls they begged to be with.” Whew! When I tell you I felt this in my spirit. There’s this guys that chased me for years! He pursued me all throughout college but I never gave him a chance because I knew…